So, I guess this week is a PR Blackout for many mom bloggers. This week they are not reading, writing to, responding or posting anything to do with PR, pitches, reviews & giveaways.
Good for them.
I'm not going to participate because I took my blog back awhile ago.
I don't need to stop for a week. I don't need to stop for a day.. Know why?? Because awhile ago I realized I HATED blogging! I dreaded finding time to sit down & write some witty comment about some companies new product.
So, I decided not to. I'm not getting paid to do this, it isnt a job, I dont HAVE to show up to work! I do this because I want to, I offer free PR to companies large & small and hey..If I dont feel like talking about your toilet cleaner today, I'm not going to. Plain & simple.
So many people want ot be the next big thing, hell, the only way I'd like to be like Pioneer Woman is to live out West with a ton of land & animals! She can keep the rest!!! I mean, don't get me wrong, good for her & all but I'd rather be out rolling down hills in cow pies than putting in what has to be extensive blog work every day!!!
I might take a day or so off this week, and probably next, and the week after, or hell, I might take every day but 1 off.. which is the same thing I'm doing now. Not to make a point, but hell, I'm just lazy & much prefer to sit outside in my precious alone time & read a good book with a cold drink than ramble on about the pros & cons of a weeblejeeble!
I felt stressed a few months ago. I had lost sight of why I wanted to blog because I had a hard time saying No to companies who contacted me, companies who asked a bit too much of my "work" for them. I'm not getting paid, I'm giving up time with my family, I'm pissing the UPS guy off.. What the hell? I dont see any reason to be getting stressed about this whole PR blogging stuff for their benefit. All it does is make me crabby & probably cranky enough that my review will be a bit tense b/c I feel so stressed & that doesnt benefit a company whos working with me at all!
So I dont. I just DONT anymore. Screw it. If someone doesnt want to do a review with me, your probably not going to be the first, I got over my fear of being rejected LOONNGG ago. Hell, I dont even get responses from companies everyone else already worked with sometimes. Maybe sometimes I think "Damn, I really wanted that" but then again..if they dont want me, thats their loss!!!
I cant tell you how many people think its awesome I get free stuff. Yeah.. I love trying new stuff, I always have been that girl who had to try the newest thing first. (No razor or face wash or beauty products went un tested by me from 1999-2004, ok??)
But what people dont know, are down sides of trying new stuff.. Like the product review the company asked me to pull because their sleep assistant sent my husband into severe depression.. Yeah. THAT was SOOO worth it @@
Or when a major company suprises you with an awesome review & giveaway & then insists (twice) they sent your winner a prize, before stopping responding to emails all together & your winner is still asking where the hell her prize is. I certianly dont have the money to send people prizes when a company slacks off. I dont get paid to do this, remember??
Or one of my particular favorites is how when I decide to post something that people cant WIN on, and NO ONE responds. When I share about my life, my thoughts, my family & not a soul has squat to say. Yet I offer up a bag or makeup & I have 100's of comments. Yeah, I need reassurance I'm loved, just like everyone else ok?
This is my BLOG, I started it for ME to talk & hell, before I started this PR crap, I got alot more comments & TRUE readers because they actually liked what I had to say! Now, I just get people tuning in for freebies.
All I'm saying is, I dont do PR for money, hell, some days I barely even do it for fun anymore. I do it because I LOVE finding new things & when the fun stops, I know its time for me to stop, take a deep breath & re evaluate if this is what I want to do.
I no longer give myself schedules, or time lines. In the rare chance a company asks for a projected post date, I give one. But other wise.. hey, its first come first sevre as long as I dont have a good series of books to demolish at night..
I think that every blogger, if you do it for money, for free stuff or just because its the cool thing to do now'days.. Should just say "Fuck it" And blog because THEY WANT TO. Not because someone else wants them to!
Blog for you, no strike, no stand off, just do it for you. Not just this week, or next week.
But EVERY DAY.
Now, I'll go do something with my neglected children while obsessivly checking for comments.Not.